9 Tips on How I Get My Kid to Eat Anything

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I am lucky that my 2-year old isn’t a picky eater. Other parents watch on jealously as she wolfs down plates of lentils, mushrooms, peas and begs for olives.

My kid’s good eating habits definitively have something to do with the fact that I didn’t give her any refined sugar or processed foods until she was almost two (making your own baby food really isn’t that difficult or time-consuming). So, her taste buds haven’t been tainted by chemically-enhanced flavors.
But my daughter is ultimately still a toddler – which means that she goes through phases where she is incredibly picky. Since she is too young to understand the concept of nutrition, I instead use these tricks to get her to eat pretty much anything:

1. Disguise It

The easiest way to get your kid to eat unflavored foods is by hiding them. My favorite way of doing this is with pancakes.  To the surprise of many, you can put just about anything in a pancake – and they don’t have to be sweet! For example, this is a favorite of my 2-year old daughter:

Recipe: Pancakes with brown lentils, feta cheese, garlic, and zucchini.

To make the pancakes, I just start with this base (serves 1 adult and 1 small kid):

  • ¾ cup white flour
  • ¼ cup whole grain flour
  • 1 tsp. baking powder
  • 1 tsp. baking soda
  • Pinch of salt
  • 1 egg
  • 1 cup milk

Mix the dry ingredients together. Then make a well in the center and add the egg and milk. Mix until smooth.

You can add pretty much anything to this pancake base. Just cook/sauté the combo first and make sure that all the ingredients are chopped small enough that they won’t make noticeable big chunks in the pancakes.

You’d never guess that these pancakes are loaded with nutritious lentils!


2. Bribe Them

I am lucky that my toddler has an obsessive love for olives. When she is being a picky eater, all I have to do is offer her an olive for each bite of food she eats. I know she is full when the bribe doesn’t work anymore.

***Note: Never bribe your kid with sweets. This will just make him/her want the main course less!

3. Cook Together

Kids are much more likely to eat something if they helped make it – and young kids love to help!

I give my daughter a blunt knife and have her chop up the soft ingredients (like mushrooms or tofu). I also show her how I heat the oil, add each ingredient, and so forth. She thinks it is amazing how flour turns into bread and how macaroni goes from inedible to soft and delicious.

Now, I am not a super-mama, so I don’t have time or patience to cook with my kid every night. But, I’ve found that giving my toddler a small task actually keeps her busy so I can get the bulk of the cooking work done.

4. Give a Choice

Young kids feel powerless in the world and try to gain some control through refusal (hence why “no” is a favorite word of toddlers). You can make your kid feel more in control by offering a choice of foods. For example, I’ll ask my daughter if she wants peas or broccoli with dinner. Given a choice, she is much more likely to eat the chosen food.

5. Lay Off the Snacks

There may be a very good reason why your kids aren’t eating their food: They may already be too full from snacks.

As Karen Le Billon, author of French Kids Eat Everything, points out in a NY Times article, American children are 3x more likely to be overweight than French children. French children also aren’t picky eaters like us Americans and have no problem with foods ranging from cauliflower to beets. The difference in eating habits can be attributed to the fact that French kids only snack once per day. By contrast, American kids are constantly chowing down on something.

I give my daughter a healthy snack when she gets home from preschool at 4 (I usually let her make her own snack).  After that, she doesn’t get anything other than water until dinner at 7. By then, she is hungry and always clears her plate!

Tips for Raising Vegetarian Children

I’ve been a vegetarian for over 15 years and my vegetarian lifestyle wasn’t about to stop when I became pregnant and had my first kid. But, in retrospect, I realize that I was a bit too idealistic about raising a vegetarian child.  While it isn’t difficult per se, it would be naïve and immoral of me to say that it was easy.

Vegetarian parents need to realize that their children will be segregated from mainstream society and nutrition may be a constant battle.

6. Vegetarian Infants

There is nothing healthier for an infant than mother’s milk. When the mother is healthy, then breast milk will provide all the nutrients that a growing infant needs. The World Health Organization recommends that infants only drink breast milk for the first 6 months of life, and only after that should solid foods be introduced gradually.

Note that vegan breastfeeding mothers MUST take a B12 supplement.  This is because B12 reserves from the liver (where B12 is stored) do NOT make it into breast milk.  The vitamin must come from food or a supplement.

In the ideal world, every vegetarian mom would be able to stay at home with her infant and breastfeed on demand. However, the world is far from ideal. Maternity leave is often only 3 months, which means that infants have to switch to formula and vegetarian moms have to find a way to pump milk at work (and work isn’t always the most breast-friendly environment!).

Some tips for vegetarian breastfeeding moms who have to return to work:

  • Talk to your boss about your breast pumping needs. If it is a male, he might get red in the face, but he will probably happily find a quiet place for you to pump.
  • Invest in a good pump. You will be using it a lot!
  • Breastfeeding is best, but don’t feel guilty if you decide to switch to formula-only. Every family has to decide for themselves what is best!

7. Starting Vegetarian Babies on Solid Food

Both the American Dietetic Association and the American Academy of Pediatrics agree that a vegan diet can meet all the nutritional requirements of a child. However, they do stress the fact that foods must be chosen carefully and supplementation may be necessary. Even children who are still breastfeeding may need an iron, B12, and vitamin D supplement.

When kids first start eating solid foods, it is exciting for them – so they aren’t likely to be very picky (yet). Take advantage of this period by introducing kids to healthy foods like lentils, spinach, and whole-grain cereals.

Infants and young children have higher nutritional demands than adults, so don’t assume that your child is getting adequate nutrition from the foods he or she is eating. Talk to your child’s pediatrician to make sure your growing child stays healthy!

8. Making Your Own Vegetarian Baby Food

There are plenty of organic, vegetarian baby foods available at health stores. Making your own vegetarian food isn’t difficult though (and it is much cheaper).

The method I used with my vegetarian baby was this:

  • About twice a week, I would spend a few hours boiling various fruits, veggies, and grains (separately) until they were soft. Tip: Save the water as a nutrient-rich drink!
  • Mash each fruit and veggie into a puree and then put each into its own separate jar.
  • At feeding time, I would mix a few scoops of puree together (like lentils, apple, and brown rice for dinner) in a cup.

Tips:

  • Make sure to use a clean spoon each time you take food from the jars so bacteria doesn’t grow!
  • I heated the food by putting the cup in warm water. You could use a microwave though for an even easier solution.
  • Instead of putting the pureed food in jars in the refrigerator, you can put the puree in ice cube trays (even better, use popsicle trays). Then, just defrost before feeding time. The food can last up to 3 months this way.

Here is a good guide to making your own baby food.

9. Getting Toddlers to Eat their Veggies

If you don’t let your baby know about the world of refined sugars and sweets, then it is fairly easy to get your child to eat healthily. However, children eventually catch on to the fact that there are much tastier foods than figs and apples out there! In my case, this happened when grandma started slipping my daughter candy bars. Even if a toddler never gets a taste of candy, most kids still typically become picky eaters around 2 years old. At this point, you may have a harder time getting your kids to eat their veggies. For growing vegetarian children who need a lot of nutrients, this could lead to health problems.

Tips:

  • Give your child a choice (Do you want carrots or peas with dinner?). Having a choice makes the toddler feel more in control and he/she will be more likely to eat the chosen food.
  • Variety! Your toddler may love spinach on Monday night, but by Tuesday it is already boring. Try to mix up your vegetarian meals as much as possible to keep foods exciting.
  • Get creative. If you call broccoli “little trees” or make a face out of peas on the rice patty, your little ones will be more likely to eat healthy foods.

Do Vegetarian Children Need Supplements?

Children need high amounts of nutrients like iron and calcium to sustain their growth. All children (not just vegetarians) are at risk of some nutrient deficiencies because of their increased needs. Parents should be cautious about monitoring their children’s nutritional health – especially children being raised vegan.

Talk to your doctor about your child’s vegetarian diet. You will probably need to have your child’s hemoglobin levels to detect an iron deficiency.

Supplements can help ensure that vegetarian children get all the nutrients they need. However, supplements shouldn’t be used to compensate for a poor diet. The best source of nutrients for vegetarians is through foods like whole grains, dark leafy greens, legumes, and fruits.

Vegetarian supplements for children generally are safe to take. However, it is still best to talk to a pediatrician before giving your vegetarian child a supplement. Too much of certain nutrients could cause health problems like kidney stones (calcium) or iron overload.

Find Your Own Solution…

I realize that all families are different and my personal insight may not apply (maybe your kid will never complain about eating broccoli and being denied candy). But I think it is important for parents to openly admit that raising vegetarian children isn’t always the piece of whole-grain cake they’d like it to be. After all, vegetarianism is a lifestyle choice and you can’t expect a toddler to understand the basis of these choices, nor the fundamentals of nutrition, at such a young age.

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Diane Vukovic

Diane Vukovic is a vegan mom, health nut, and kitchen diva. When she's not deducing veggie nutritional facts, she's probably dancing crazily with her daughter or traveling somewhere in Europe.